Has your idea of what makes a good friend changed as you’ve gotten older?
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Author: Kamika Manning
I’ve come to realise that when you pour into someone, it should be reciprocated. I’ve spent a lot of time pouring into others, not necessarily expecting rewards or anything in return, but simply wanting a little acknowledgement.
It’s easy to be there for someone when they’re going through hell. You offer support, lend an ear and help them navigate their difficult moments. But when you’re the one in a bind, suddenly they’re nowhere to be found.
I’ve learnt that relationships shouldn’t be built solely around what one person can give. There has to be room for mutual care, consideration and understanding.
Because being there for someone shouldn’t mean constantly abandoning yourself in the process.
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